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Kindness is Alive and Well

By Kaye Hauschild
Head of Middle School, Lakehill Preparatory School

Kindness in Middle School is not the mythical creature that most people assume it is. It is shy, preferring to exist behind the scenes rather than in the spotlight.

It has a quiet voice, as if something very loud would take away its magic. It has the ability to grow in its reach, power, and impact if allowed the space and encouragement to do so. It can also be contagious, infecting friends and acquaintances.

Living as I do in a middle school world, I am used to hearing the generalizations about the negative side of our age. But I am proud to be witness to the kindness that students show to each other when someone is sad, overwhelmed, or feeling misunderstood. I am happy to provide opportunities for them to share their gifts and talents with those less fortunate. I am excited to help when they reach out during a problem in our neighborhood or a far away disaster.

Kindness is alive and well and growing and giving in our Middle School – and I am happy to be a witness!


 

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Teaching

A Witness to History

By Elizabeth Schmitt
English Teacher, Lakehill Preparatory School

As a teacher, I am committed to bringing history and literature to life for my students. I have organized field trips to museums and plays, but find it most effective when I bring in an expert speaker to share their experiences. This week, I had the privilege to introduce Max Glauben, a Holocaust survivor, to an assembly of the sixth through twelfth grade students. We all sat rapt listening to his testimony.

At Lakehill, our study of the Holocaust begins in sixth grade with the Diary of Anne Frank. It is often difficult for an eleven-year-old to imagine that such persecution could have happened, that people would have to go into hiding. In ninth grade, our freshmen read  Night, Elie Wiesel’s brief, but powerful memoir of his experience in the concentration camps. With Wiesel’s death last year, I was spurred with the urgency of having a survivor speak to our students. As my freshmen read the text and watched Schindler’s List this January and February, a spike in Anti-Semitic threats and desecration of Jewish cemeteries occurred across the United States. I proposed that we have Glauben speak to our students, and it was arranged through the Dallas Holocaust Museum.

Glauben was 11 when the Nazis invaded his homeland of Poland; 13 during the Warsaw Ghetto uprising; and 15 when the war ended. He told his story without embellishments or visual aids. This simplicity made his words all the more vivid. I was struck by his matter-of-fact description of how his father was one of 100 prisoners taken as hostages because 10 others did not return from a work detail. He spoke of last seeing his father lying face down on the ground. The next morning all that remained were his father’s shoes. Glauben knew that his father had been killed, and that he was now an orphan at 13.

His perseverance and will to survive were driven by a phrase in the Talmud, the ancient Jewish legal text: “He who saves one life saves the world entire.” If Glauben could save himself, he would be able to make a difference, sharing his story and speaking for the more than 1,000,000 children who were killed during the Holocaust, including his younger brother.

At 89, he is preparing to make his twelfth trip back to Poland for the March of the Living. (Lakehill senior Zac Aron will be a part of this trip.) He and his wife Frieda have three children, seven grandchildren, and one great-grandchild. One of his sons, Barry, attended Lakehill.

This assembly was a highlight of my 16 years at Lakehill for many reasons. My connection to the subject matter is personal. My family is Jewish. My father was a radar operator with the 781st Bomb Squadron of the Army Air Corps during World War II. I remember sitting at the dining room table, listening to him describe flying with two sets of dog tags: one identified him as Jewish, the other did not. He was shot down three times over Eastern Europe. I wouldn’t be here without that second set of tags.

Glauben’s presence transformed an abstract into reality for those assembled. The image of the KL tattooed on his arm will live in all of our memories. His story serves as a powerful reminder that every voice matters.

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Lower School Traditions

Three Simple Rules

By John Trout
Head of Lower School, Lakehill Preparatory School

How may rules did you have when you were in elementary school? I remember giant lists hanging on my classroom walls when I was growing up, and they all seemed to be telling me what I shouldn’t be doing. Ask any Lakehill Lower School student how many rules they have, and they can tell you. Three. Just three! And, rather than telling students which behaviors are unwanted, our rules remind children how a Lakehill student should behave. Students are expected to Be Safe, to Be Respectful, and to Welcome Others.

Such vague, nebulous rules don’t tell kids very much, and that’s their genius. They require students to think before they act, to imagine the natural consequences of their choices, and to craft a school environment that is warm and friendly. The Safety Rule reminds students to be aware of their surroundings and their bodies. When students push the boundaries, we, as teachers, ask them to tell us what could go wrong, and to decide how to correct the situation. The Respect Rule encourages empathy. Students are asked to imagine how a situation might look from another point of view, and to imagine how they would feel if roles were reversed. The Welcome Rule promotes togetherness. It reminds students to reach out to others to ensure that their peers feel wanted and have a place in the group.
This year, we celebrated the 10th anniversary of a special tradition in Lower School, the annual Triangle Rules Poster Contest. Dozens of Lower School students submitted posters to creatively remind their classmates of our Triangle Rules. The winners and runners up were celebrated at our Triangle Rules Assembly on Monday, October 17. The winning poster, a construction-themed illustration by third grader Madeline Jones, will be reproduced for display in every Lower School classroom and along the hallways as a year-long reminder of who Lakehill students are meant to be.
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College Readiness

Taking a Risk

By Heather Dondis
Director of College Counseling, Lakehill Preparatory School

Earlier this fall, I unintentionally performed a social experiment.  A representative from the University of Southern California was coming to present on the university and I had nearly 50 students signed up for the lunchtime visit.  The best place to accommodate this number of students and their lunches was obviously the lunchroom.  So I instructed the students who signed up for the visit to sit on the right side of the cafeteria.  Easy, right?  Well, little did I know how attached students were to their tables and their groups of friends.  I even heard one student say, “I guess I’ll learn more about USC,” as he didn’t want to move from his place, and he hadn’t signed up for the visit.

Fast forward a few weeks later.  At our annual presentation to our freshman and parents of freshman, we had a student panel of seniors offering their advice on how to be successful.  One piece of advice that they offered was to try something new, don’t just follow friends.

So this is my advice to students reading this blog…there are so many opportunities out there.  Do not let something pass you by because you were afraid to step out of your comfort zone.  Lower School, Middle School, and Upper School each has its unique set of activities and events.  College will offer you even more–some colleges have over 700 clubs and organizations!  And to parents reading this blog, encourage, but do not force your children to do something new.  Continue to offer new opportunities and be confident that something will click.

Life is too short to sit at the same lunch table every day.

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Giving

Impact Upon Your Children

By Ray Dent
Director of Development and Alumni Relations
Lakehill Preparatory School

The Fall 2014 issue of Milestones Magazine was released this week entitled Donor Impact  2013-2014 Gratitude Report. In describing this special issue LPS Headmaster, Roger L. Perry, wrote, “It provides an opportunity for us to highlight the positive difference our supporters have made in this great school and in the lives of the children we serve.”

The entire magazine is a series of “Reflections” on the positive impact all the people who supported Lakehill Preparatory School last year had upon the children we educate within these walls. Those who gave so generously their money, time and talents are recognized in articles and pictures throughout the publication.

Some of the best parts of my job are getting to work with our donors and volunteers. I know how much they give to our school and I weigh the direct impact their generosity has upon our students.

However, some of the other best parts of my job are getting to work with our exceptional faculty. There are twenty of them on the cover of Milestones with a banner thanking YOU for having a positive impact upon their students last year. Combined, those twenty faculty members have a total of four hundred years of Lakehill service making a positive impact upon our students. I believe everyone should also give each of them a special Thank YOU!   

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Success

The Meaning of Success

By Roger L. Perry
Headmaster, Lakehill Preparatory School

Success is a word we use as we aspire to accomplish things in our lives. It is often used to evaluate progress toward a specific goal. Like so many things, success can mean different things, depending on the situation and the person determining the level of completion.

Many times we are too critical of ourselves and others. Each of us achieves much more in any given day than we realize. Yet so often we are in such a hurry to get everything done that we do not slow down enough to enjoy some of the successes. We miss the opportunity to validate our efforts and provide positive reinforcement.

The validation of our own success so often seems to be dependent upon the words of others. So during these dreary winter days, I encourage you to seek opportunities to praise someone who you have noticed has gone beyond your expectations. You will have a positive impact on another person, while validating their efforts. In the process, you will have accomplished a task that makes you successful and feel good, as well.

In the spirit of the old saying, “Take time to stop and smell the roses,” I encourage you to take the time to notice the amazing things that are being accomplished around you every day, and realize that you are one of those successes for someone. Enjoy these winter days as spring will be here before you know it!

 

 

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Community

Hot Meals, Warm Hearts

By Kristen Munoz
Middle School Science and Social Students Teacher, Sixth Grade Class Sponsor, Lakehill Preparatory School

The sixth grade class at Lakehill Preparatory School is committed to providing service to both Lakehill and the surrounding East Dallas community. Recently, the class began volunteering for Lakehill’s Meals on Wheels route.  Every other week, students travel with Ms. Hauschild, Ms. Ekstrom, and Ms. Stretcher to deliver meals to people in need. I have heard such amazing feedback from our kids about their experiences with the program. Claire Maxell told me after her delivery day that “seeing someone smile as I handed over a meal made my heart feel warm.” Watching my students get so excited to help others warms my heart as well.

Sixth graders also participated in our recent canned food drive. Middle School students donated more than 800 cans to benefit the Vickery Meadows food pantry. This food pantry serves residents in the East Dallas area who have come to the area as refugees. These brave people have come to the United States from terrible situations, leaving everything they know behind. They come to Dallas, unfamiliar with our language and customs, yet they must find work, enroll their children in school, and navigate the city. They use the food pantry as a way to supplement to their home pantry once a month. Our sixth graders expressed such compassion when talking about how brave these people are.

As our sixth grade students continue to feed those in need in our community, they also feed the heart of Lakehill with love and kindness.

Sixth graders prepare for their Meals on Wheels Route.
Sixth graders prepare for their Meals on Wheels Route.
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Celebrating Teamwork

By Patti Brooks
Lower School Coordinator, Lakehill Preparatory School

In my 31 years as part of the faculty at Lakehill, I have come to appreciate the value of teamwork in our school. “Teamwork” is defined as: “work done by several associates with each doing a part but all subordinating personal prominence to the efficiency of the whole.”

One of the great strengths of our school is the spirit of camaraderie that prevails within our faculty. For example, a teacher might ask, “Does anyone have any cotton balls?” and before you know it, she is inundated with several bags of cotton balls! No matter what the request, so many staff members want to help each other…..(no rewards are given, no recognition is expected).

This spirit of helpfulness and teamwork spills over onto the students. We have a new Lower School positive incentive program this year called, “Get Caught.” In this program, we are trying to “catch” the class being mannerly, good citizens as a group – or team – during the day. The faculty or staff member noticing the good behavior gives the group a red ticket and compliments their behavior. There is a drawing each week at our Wonderful Wednesday Lower School assembly where the red tickets are drawn from a hat. The class chosen gets special recognition during the next assembly.

We have seen very positive results from the “Get Caught” program and hope the students realize that striving for goals as a group is very rewarding. ( I am proud to be on a faculty where setting examples for students comes effortlessly from the heart!)

Ms. Brooks draws a red ticket out of the hat.
Ms. Brooks draws a red ticket out of the hat.
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Middle School Traditions

Magical Moments Away From Home

By Kaye Hauschild
Middle School Coordinator, Lakehill Preparatory School

I am excited! Next week, I will share an adventure with my faculty members and our Middle School students. We are traveling – east, west, and south – to give our students an opportunity to have a first-hand walk through natural and historical sites, taking our classrooms on the road. As the students are studying their packing lists, we chaperones are looking forward to the magical moments we are going to share with our classes.

What will those moments look like? There is the thrill of watching fifth graders traverse the ropes course at Mo Ranch with burgeoning confidence, filled with the joy of conquering a challenge.

There is the fun for sixth graders of experiencing life as a Texas pioneer, making rope and weaving cloth, and standing in the places where the heroes of the Texas Revolution fought for freedom.

For seventh graders, there is the sheer magnificence of the hiking from the rim to the base of Palo Duro Canyon and horseback riding in the canyon itself.

And our eighth graders will walk into the past with experiences at the battlefield at Shiloh, in the hallways of Central High in Little Rock, and the Lorraine Motel in Memphis.

For all of us, the memories of these adventures will last long after the trips are back home.

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Service Learning

Hope in Good Hearts

By Jennifer Warder
Upper School Mathematics Teacher, Lakehill Preparatory School
Freshman Class Sponsor

As adults, we often wonder what the future holds when the young people of today will become our leaders. Sometimes what we witness here and now can cause us to be doubtful and even fearful. Thankfully, at Lakehill we have solid, reliable young people in every class who give us hope. Rarely, however, do you find an entire class with hearts like our current Freshman class.

Although we started this year with no one wanting to take a leadership role in the Freshman class, we have since been blessed with four good officers who work well together and a class of students all willing to do their part. During our first class project as part of Lakehill’s annual Holiday Luncheon, every member of the class played an important role in the weeks leading up to the Luncheon and on the day of the actual event.  In addition to our amazing officers, we had other students who stepped up and took on leadership roles. There were also the “thinkers,” who proactively thought out every possible stumbling block we could encounter and took action to prevent issues. On the day of the event, we had the “doers,” who kept the elderly supplied with water and coffee, wrapped silverware for the luncheon, and ran to get help when we encountered issues. Those comfortable with strangers sat and spoke with the elderly, holding their hands, and showing compassion well beyond their years. All were positive; all played to their strengths.  All made their class sponsors incredibly proud.

Freshmen are typically (and understandably) the most immature of the Upper School classes. However, this group has a maturity of spirit that is rare, in addition to positive attitudes that accompany a wit and sense of fun that I cherish.

They have themselves shared with me that they are not the most academic-minded of students.  But, they have a heart for people and a sense of empathy that I find rare for their age.  As teachers, we can work with them on the academic front.  But, we cannot coach them into having a heart for others.  I see a promise in all of our futures because of the incredible hearts of our Freshmen.