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Lower School Traditions

A Holiday Just For Kids

By John Trout
Fourth Grade Teacher, Lakehill Preparatory School 

Trick or Treat, Smell My Feet, Give me Something Good To Eat!

Is Halloween really a holiday?  The banks still cash checks and take deposits, Wall Street and Capitol Hill still give CNN and Fox News plenty to talk about, the postwoman still dodges biting dogs to safely deliver our latest Amazon.com order, and it’s business as usual across America when October 31st rolls around.

And why shouldn’t it be?  Our adult world has its own nightmares, troubles, and haunting thoughts that we only wish flicking on the lights would banish. Halloween is not for us.  It’s for the kids!

I’m not sure if the students at Lakehill really realize how lucky they have it.  When I was a kid, it seemed like my teachers tried their hardest to pretend that Halloween didn’t even exist. No ghosts, no witches, no jangly skeletons for us.  Halloween was to be handled on our own time (and after a regular day of school and a regular night of homework).

How the times have changed!  At Lakehill, Halloween is not just acknowledged, it’s embraced! Our annual Halloween Carnival, run by the older middle schoolers and parent volunteers who remember the thrills and chills of their younger years, begins with a parade of lower school superheroes, ghouls, and ghosts marching through the school hallways, with the older kids (in their own costumes) cheering them on.  After an afternoon of bobbing for apples, fortune telling, and even a haunted house, trick-or-treating-aged kids get to hop into the carpool lane and head home not to face the horrors of a night of homework, but to enjoy a homework-free evening of costumes and way too much candy. They enjoy, in short, the kind of Halloween my friends and I could only have dreamed of, and would certainly never have imagined actually existing in our lifetime.

So, tonight is your night, kids (and kids-at-heart).  Enjoy it!  And, be sure to say thanks to the older kids and adults who help make it a magically spooky night.  They know how important it is to let kids be kids on the one holiday that’s truly just for them.

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College Readiness

Calculating College Costs

By Heather Dondis
Director of College Placement, Lakehill Preparatory School

This fall, at the National Association for College Admission Counseling, I attended a workshop on the new federally mandated Cost of Attendance Calculators.

By the end of October 2011, all colleges and universities are required to post a Net Price Calculator on their websites.  This is to help families estimate what they will be expected to pay.  Families with children of all ages are able to use the calculators for college planning purposes.

In theory, these calculators are a great way to plan for costs ahead associated with a college education.  They are designed to make many families realize that higher education is within their reach financially.  Please note, though, that it is up to each institution to decide what information to collect.  Typically, the more information a person is asked to provide, the more detailed the estimate.

Also, please note that these cost calculators do not account for some scholarships that colleges award such as talent and leadership based scholarships.  These cost calculators are to be used as a guideline only and not as a method to eliminate colleges where additional scholarship funding may exist.

An example of a net price Calculator can be found on the College Board website: http://www.collegeboard.com/student/pay/add-it-up/401.html.

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Lower School Traditions

Rules

By Patti Brooks
Lower School Coordinator, Lakehill Preparatory School 

Life is so full of rules!

Many of us like the feeling of having safe boundaries each day….I know that I do!  Just about everything we do has rules, sometimes they are spoken or written, but more often they are just understood.  Those are the hardest to follow and the ones that are the most challenging each day.

In Lakehill’s Lower School we have a code of behavior called the Triangle Rules.  These rules are written, spoken, and understood. In my opinion, it takes all three types to make sure these rules are understood by everyone.

Each year, our talented 2nd-4th grade students (under the expert guidance of Catherine Huitt, their art teacher) draw posters to depict their own perception of these rules. These posters are wonderful, creative, and very expressive.  A committee of teachers judges these and picks a winner each year. The winning poster is copied, laminated, and displayed throughout the Lower School as a daily reminder to us all.

The rules are simple, but direct. They are:

1. THE RESPECT RULE—Students are expected to respect themselves, their classmates, and their teachers.

2. THE SAFETY RULE—Students are expected to act in such a way that they do not endanger themselves or others.

3. THE WELCOME RULE—Students are expected to include one another in classroom and playground activities.

Wouldn’t our world be a better place if everyone everywhere followed these rules?

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Spirit

Dreaming In Blue And Green

By Kaye Hauschild
Middle School Coordinator, Lakehill Preparatory School 

I could not sleep last Thursday night.  It was ridiculous, really.  We have been having early morning cheer practices and after-hours projects like float building along with volleyball games that earned the varsity girls a place in the playoffs.  Students and teachers have continued to keep their academic focus throughout these overscheduled days. There was every reason in the world to fall deep into some seriously needed REM.  But I didn’t.  Instead I anticipated the day and the night to come.

HOMECOMING!

You might think that I would be beyond bored participating in my 28th Lakehill Homecoming.  No way!  I am filled with the excitement that our Homecoming celebrations bring with them.

My first surprise was a Homecoming mum I received from my cheerleaders, decorated with miniature cowbells that rang with my every step.  A second treat was the parade participation of a former Lakehill cheerleader from the early ’70s who wore part of her cheer uniform and used her original megaphone throughout the parade.   After the hard work of our Upper School houses, it was no surprise that our first ever Homecoming parade was super spirited and fabulously fun.  The pep rally that followed the parade was a labor of love, creativity, and skill from the Varsity cheerleaders and included performances from our Middle School cheerleaders and the senior guys.  I was proud that everyone’s hard work paid off in what I heard some people call our most spirited pep rally ever!

On Friday night, Perry field was alive with cheers for our football team.   The lines were long for the Dad’s Club cooking and the Alumni dinner catered by Mr. Wolf’s Rudy’s.  No one could have predicted the incredible number of alumni who came to share in the fun. I loved seeing the new babies, the reunited friends, and the alumni parents who don’t want to miss the fun even if their child has graduated.  It was definitely an honor to see how many of our past Homecoming queens came to join our halftime ceremony.    And it was wonderfully unexpected when we sang our Alma Mater at the end of the game and so many alumni voices joined in.

I loved every minute of Homecoming 2011.  It was definitely worth losing a little sleep over.  Now I start dreaming of 2012…

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Family and Community

Home Is Where The Heart Is

By Lara Gajkowski
Assistant Head of School, Lakehill Preparatory School

Home is where the heart is . . .

This past weekend my family had a wonderful homecoming reunion in celebration of my mother’s 90th birthday. Sisters, husbands, brothers, wives, children, grandchildren, nieces, and nephews gathered in McKinney for a new kind of family homecoming. My mother, the matriarch of the family, has always been the glue that has kept my huge family together. Her home was always welcoming, lively, and a place of stimulating conversation as well as raucous play. My mother no longer owns her own home but rather shares a home with me and my husband Russ. So, though my siblings and I had a few moments of trepidation about amassing so many people outside my mother’s home for a weekend, we forged a new path, a new tradition. We all stayed in McKinney for the weekend and a most excellent time was had by all, far exceeding our expectations.

Most every morning I have the pleasure of traveling to what has become my home away from home for the past fourteen years, Lakehill.  My connection to my Lakehill family is deep and I revel daily in the accomplishments of the members who share or have shared this home. Tomorrow, Lakehill will be having its wonderful homecoming reunion in celebration of its 40th anniversary. Students, alumni, parents, grandparents, friends, family members, and faculty will gather together to celebrate the successes Lakehill has had over the years. Yet, while we celebrate the past, we forge ahead with the new. Amongst just a few moments of trepidation, this year the students, alumni, and faculty forged a new path, a new tradition, a homecoming parade. The planning and implementation of our parade, including floats, the homecoming court, and alumni homecoming queens, has created some wonderful moments of bonding across the generations and some memories to be laughed about in the years to come. This new experience has far exceeded our expectations.

In many ways, I see a kindred relationship between my Lakehill family and my biological family.

The Lakehill experience is the glue that keeps us all connected much as my mother has been the glue that has kept my family connected.

Home is where the heart is and Lakehill has our hearts. See you at the homecoming parade, pep rally, and game!

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Learning and Leading

A History of Headmasters

By Roger L. Perry
Headmaster, Lakehill Preparatory School 

One of the exciting benefits of an anniversary is the opportunity to reflect on the days, weeks, or years leading up to the moment of celebration. So as I reflect on the school’s 40th anniversary, the recollection of people who helped the school arrive where we are today seems appropriate and healthy.

Many of you may not realize that we have enjoyed the benefit of five Headmasters over the past forty years. In 1971, the founding Headmaster was Hollis Allen, a former DISD assistant Superintendent who had recently retired. He served one year – and a very important year it was – as he was able to convince his acquaintances in DISD to give Lakehill desks and blackboards and the things that our school needed to get started. The desks and other items were well used and were scheduled for the trash, but they were critical for the humble beginnings of our school.

The second Headmaster was Bob Ivie, a former science teacher at J.L. Long. Under his leadership, the school continued to operate much like a public school, except that we were private. I am very thankful that Mr. Ivie took a chance on a young educator and hired me as a part-time teacher and coach while I continued to work on my graduate degree at the University of North Texas. For historical perspective, I worked from noon to 7:30 pm, or until the game or event ended, for an amazing $200/month. Near the end of the fall term, the assistant Headmaster was released from his duties. Mr. Ivie asked me to serve in the assistant role for the spring semester and attend graduate school at night. I remained in that role for six years.

In 1976, Bernard Fulton, the founding Headmaster of Greenhill came to Lakehill as Headmaster and is the one I would credit for helping us become a true independent college preparatory school. His longtime buddy, Bob Lyle, who had recently retired from Hockaday as Headmaster, became one of my mentors, along with Bernard. After two great years at the helm, Mr. Fulton retired and Lee Johnson came to Lakehill from the Pennington School in Pennsylvania. Mr. Johnson attempted to bring the New England nuances to our college preparatory school. As you might imagine, there was some reluctance on the part of Texans to fully accept his approach.

In February of 1982, Mr. Johnson left the school and the Board of Directors thought it was my turn to give the position a try. Each of these Headmasters played an important role in building the foundation of our school and made significant contributions to the Lakehill we all enjoy today. I am thankful that the Perry years continue to be written.

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Spirit

Coming Home

By Katie Becker
Social Studies Department Chair and Alumna, Lakehill Preparatory School 

October has always been my favorite month. In Texas, October means that fall is officially here and the oppressive heat is replaced with cool breezes and changing foliage. When October arrives, it’s time to visit the State Fair of Texas to eat a Fletcher’s corny dog and see Big Tex.

October also means that football season is in full swing and it’s time for homecoming. This year on Friday, October 14, Lakehill will celebrate this annual tradition with alumni coming home, high school girls wearing mums, and everyone enjoying the cool weather as they watch the football team under the Friday night lights.

When I was a student at Lakehill I loved homecoming week. It was spirited, fun, and ended with a dance. How could it get any better? I don’t think I realized at the time what homecoming truly meant for the school and the alumni who returned home to visit their alma mater. But it all made sense when I returned for my first true homecoming during my first year in college. While I had only been at college for a month or so, I felt an entirely new sense of community from the school I had graduated from just months earlier. Where once I was merely a student within the immediate confines of the school, now I was part of a much larger community – a network of accomplished and interesting individuals. I felt a new sense of spirit and a pride in my school that eventually drew me back to teach here. Now I enjoy celebrating homecoming week as a teacher and as an alumna. And this year I look forward to sharing homecoming with my husband and two future Lakehill alumni.

This year a new tradition is taking place and adding to the spirit of homecoming week. Festivities start at 2:00 p.m. on the Lakehill main campus with a homecoming parade, complete with student-made floats, the homecoming court, and former homecoming queens. The parade will lead the entire school around the building to the gym for the annual pep rally that starts at 2:30.  And later at Perry Field, both Middle School and High School football teams will play Rockwall Christian with games starting at 5:00 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. respectively. The alumni tent will host all alumni in a welcome dinner beginning at 6:30 p.m. I look forward to sharing in the homecoming fun with all past, current, and future students and their families.

 

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Mentoring

Jolly Good Inspiration

By Victoria John
Latin Teacher, Lakehill Preparatory School

Last summer after attending The American Classical League Institute in Minneapolis, I spent a couple of days with Carol and Michael Mackner, former Lakehill master teacher and her husband, corporate executive and railroad historian. Carol and Michael are a civic-minded team, independently and cooperatively strong. Carol remains active in the community while a full-time substitute at St. Paul Academy and The Summit School.  Michael serves on the Board of Directors and is the Vice President of Education at the Twin Cities Model Railroad Museum in St. Paul. He is also the author of the book, The Twin City Model Railroad Club/Museum 1934-2009.

Visiting with Carol and Michael is like combining a hands-on course in American history with the camaraderie of friendship. Michael spearheaded our driving tour as he narrated the development of the historically-rich Summit Avenue. We continued by visiting the home of the Great Northern Railway mogul James J. Hill and pausing for a photograph in front of the architecturally-interesting home of American icon F. Scott Fitzgerald. After breakfasting in the company of presidents at the historic Lowell Inn in the heart of Stillwater, I spotted my first American eagle nesting in the treetops. Another high note was the unveiling of their personal collection. As Michael pressed the garage door opener, the effect was of a curtain rising on a stage revealing a magnificent wall-to-wall, model train display, complete with lights, smoke and whistles and hand-painted murals depicting each of their fatherlands, England and Germany. As a model train aficionado myself, it was thrilling.

When I returned to Lakehill this fall, I sensed a renewed energy for teaching, an odyssey of spirit. Carol’s “jolly good” voice of encouragement kept echoing in my mind. She had always inspired me to do my best and to lead students on an educational, character-building journey. Even though she has not been at Lakehill for over seven years, I still think of her as a role model and my chosen mentor.

Bryna Thomson, a Lakehill 7th and 8th grade science teacher and Science Department Chair, also praises Carol as a colleague. “Carol was my teacher mentor my first year at Lakehill.  We were seventh grade class sponsors together and had a great time.  I learned a great deal about classroom management and working with students from her.  She was always firm with her students and expected a lot from them, but you could tell that she cared for each and every one of them.  She was (and still is) a great role model for me!”

Carol remembers her own mentor with affection. “Third grade teacher Bea Skalbeck took me under her wing. We met and chatted in the teacher’s lounge at St. Paul Academy and The Summit School. She was the grandmotherly type, who, after her husband’s death, adopted and raised a child from China.” They kept in touch after Carol started teaching at Lakehill. “Years later, I ran into her at a summer gathering while visiting Minnesota. She came up to me and said, ‘You did a really good job. I knew you would be a good teacher.’” Carol admitted, “I was quite moved by her words at the time. Her kind words were even more meaningful when I learned about her death less than two weeks later. She was a lovely person, someone concerned about other people.”

In 2001 Carol and I chaperoned the 8th Grade Adventure Week trip to Washington, D.C. I will never forget our day at the White House. We had waited in line for almost three hours, so after the tour students were tired and hungry. As we left the building, we found ourselves in the middle of a peaceful demonstration organized by the airplane mechanics union. The future Lakehill class of 2005 sparked to life as they ran to talk to the individuals involved. Carol accompanied one of the students, and together they interviewed one of the workers. The student, moved by our founding fathers’ emphasis on freedoms, turned to Carol and remarked, “This is a really good cause. May I join them?” Modeling support, Carol turned to the girl and said, “Go for it.”

We both watched, as one by one, our students joined the circuitous picket line, some grabbing signs, others joining in with cheers. It was quite a memorable sight, as our students lived the history they were studying.

During the next four years we accompanied other 8th grade classes to Boston, co-sponsored the annual Roman Banquet, chaperoned middle school dances, and worked with the 7th grade class on community service projects. For each event, Carol stood tall, addressed her troops, offered her support and encouragement, and with an eager, “Tally ho,” stepped aside as the students assumed their leadership roles.

That’s what a good mentor does.

“Jolly good.”