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Community

Hot Meals, Warm Hearts

By Kristen Munoz
Middle School Science and Social Students Teacher, Sixth Grade Class Sponsor, Lakehill Preparatory School

The sixth grade class at Lakehill Preparatory School is committed to providing service to both Lakehill and the surrounding East Dallas community. Recently, the class began volunteering for Lakehill’s Meals on Wheels route.  Every other week, students travel with Ms. Hauschild, Ms. Ekstrom, and Ms. Stretcher to deliver meals to people in need. I have heard such amazing feedback from our kids about their experiences with the program. Claire Maxell told me after her delivery day that “seeing someone smile as I handed over a meal made my heart feel warm.” Watching my students get so excited to help others warms my heart as well.

Sixth graders also participated in our recent canned food drive. Middle School students donated more than 800 cans to benefit the Vickery Meadows food pantry. This food pantry serves residents in the East Dallas area who have come to the area as refugees. These brave people have come to the United States from terrible situations, leaving everything they know behind. They come to Dallas, unfamiliar with our language and customs, yet they must find work, enroll their children in school, and navigate the city. They use the food pantry as a way to supplement to their home pantry once a month. Our sixth graders expressed such compassion when talking about how brave these people are.

As our sixth grade students continue to feed those in need in our community, they also feed the heart of Lakehill with love and kindness.

Sixth graders prepare for their Meals on Wheels Route.
Sixth graders prepare for their Meals on Wheels Route.
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Community

Speaking Her Own Truth

By Victoria John
Middle School Teacher, Lakehill Preparatory School

At Lakehill we teach exceptional young people. I love teaching middle school, because when these students speak their truth, others listen.

Following the recent Cyber Safety Assembly, my eighth grade students expressed sadness about a bullied Cincinnati teenager who lost hope and took her own life almost ten years ago. Her classmates repeatedly humiliated and shamed her after her boyfriend sent an inappropriate picture of her in a text message to everyone in the school. This tragic case triggered the current legislation and inspired the programs designed to teach children about the consequences of bullying and protect them from dangerous online predators.

One of my eighth grade students, Lyric Menges, shared a personal heartbreak regarding this “permanent solution to a temporary problem.”

“Two years ago my best friend in Houston committed suicide, as a result of being bullied by her peers. I became very interested in why and how this whole thing worked.  I got involved with suicide prevention and become an emergency contact through social media. Since then, I have helped 18 people and have only lost one.  A few months ago I received an e-mail from one of the people I helped, a high school senior from the Midwest. When I read his words of gratitude, I realized that I had made an impact that big and was so glad I do this.”

He wrote, “I just wanted you to know that you are the reason I am still alive.  I worked hard the last bit of my senior year and got a scholarship for art like I wanted. I wanted you to realize the impact you had on my life and how much my parents, friends and I appreciate everything you do for us.  You are truly amazing. I am forever grateful.”

Lyric’s experience reminds me that young people care about others and take the time to make the world a better place. Because of Lyric’s dedication and willingness to listen, there are 17 more people who are alive today. I feel truly grateful that I teach at Lakehill Preparatory School and have the privilege to interact with a student like Lyric Menges, who has the courage to speak her own truth.

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Family and Community

A Greater Whole

By Heather Dondis
Director of College Counseling, Lakehill Preparatory School
Lower School Parent

As a working mom of two Lower School students, I feel very comfortable in our school environment.  I remember the headmaster once saying at a meeting with parents that there will be many opportunities to help, fiscally and physically, but you have to pick and choose and contribute where and how you can, if you can.

I have found ways to help out through assisting with parties, driving to field trips, and setting up for seasonal events.  I am fortunate that I have a job that allows me some time away from time to time to do these things, but if I couldn’t participate, I would not feel out of place.  People do what they have to do to make a living and provide for their children.  I am amazed by the number of parent volunteers and their willingness to cooperate in whatever ways they can: moms, dads, grandparents; working and stay-at-home. Major fundraising is not my area of expertise, but I love buying books at the book fair or donating a dollar or two or a canned good here or there to various charities and organizations supported by school groups.  I know that every little bit helps and working together will accomplish greater things than we can imagine.

In just a few short years, I have seen how active the school is – from Kindergarten all the way to the end of high school.  From academics to sports to special interest groups, there truly seems to be something for everyone.

I have seen flyers from the Upper School Spanish Club raising funds for Cystic Fibrosis research which initiated a great discussion with my kids about that disease. I have friends who hired babysitters from the National Honor Society and independently from the high school and they could not have had a more positive experience.  My son still talks about his “Middle School buddy” from a field trip they had in kindergarten to the Environmental Center and he says hi to him from time to time in the halls even now that this student is in high school.  My daughter will probably never stop talking about the classroom aide she had who was a senior aspiring to become an elementary school teacher.

My kids are thrilled each day to see the older kids they recognize in the halls. The familiar faces from the musicals and plays, from athletic events and Tribe meetings give them a sense of belonging to a greater whole. It’s an amazing community of which we all are a part.

 

 

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Seasons

Slow Down for Summer

By Roger L. Perry
Headmaster, Lakehill Preparatory School 

This has been a very special year, as Lakehill celebrated its 40th anniversary. Of course, every year is special as it signals the completion of another step for each of us in our lives. The steps obviously mean different things for each of us and the significance of those steps will be measured when we reflect on the path we have traveled.

Now it is summertime and life’s schedule allows for some modification. Let me once again encourage you to try as hard as you can to take a little time over the next few months of summer and enjoy some time with your children.

One suggestion comes from my early years growing up in West Texas. My family – children and adults alike – would get a blanket and lie down in the front yard, looking at the stars that make up our universe and letting our imaginations and sense of wonder run wild. Our conversations during these events far exceeded any television program we might have missed.

So be creative and watch the waves of a local lake or find a state park and follow a trail with no idea of your final destination. As my wife Virginia often reminds me, it is the little things that matter. I encourage you to appreciate the little things this summer as they are the ones that you and your children will remember forever.

Remember that summertime is for children and that all of us – if we just look deep enough – have a little bit of child left in us. Enjoy all of your summer experiences and I will look forward to welcoming you back in late August!

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Community Learning and Leading

Building Champions

By Roger L. Perry
Headmaster, Lakehill Preparatory School 

On a recent drive to Abilene to watch our boys and our girls Varsity Basketball teams play for the area championships, I had time to reflect on how far our school has come over the many years I have been at Lakehill. Many people do not realize that from 1971 until 1989 the school leased portions of the building at the Hillside campus from Lakewood Baptist Church.

The church actually owned the building and used it all day on Sundays and on Wednesday evenings. Under the early lease, any person (adult or student) who was on the second floor, more than six feet from the stairways at the end of each hall, cost the school $50 per occurrence. The old sanctuary, that no longer exists, was only available for us to use once a year, for graduation. The current lunchroom was not available for use at any time. One of my critical functions as a young administrator was to make sure the vending machines worked properly for the lunch periods and to have enough change for everyone on campus to use for lunch. Yes, the lunch program consisted entirely of vending machine items. The lunchroom was located on the bottom floor where the locker rooms are today. This space was also used for any performing arts performances and music programs.

Prior to the construction of the gym in 1980, basketball practice was held on an asphalt parking lot on the opposite side of the auditorium, where we now have playing fields. We had to lease this property from the church as well. Yes, I coached a Middle School boys’ basketball team back in the ‘70s. The gym was a wonderful addition to the school and for many years had a concrete floor. Traveling was never called because any player who tried to stop would slide on the concrete for at least a couple of feet before coming to a stop.

The gym we enjoy today is outstanding and is available to us because of a visionary Board of Directors and many donors over the years including two major donors, Joe Lancaster and Karl Kuhlman, who made large gifts to make it a reality. Both Joe and Karl are now deceased but our school would be much different today had they not given so generously in the early years. They would have enjoyed, with pride, the performance I watched in Abilene of two teams who gave all they had for their team and for their school. The school will continue to develop over the coming years and generous people, just like Joe and Karl, will step forward to make sure generations of children will be able to enjoy their Lakehill experience.

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Family and Community

Giving Thanks

By Roger L. Perry
Headmaster, Lakehill Preparatory School 

As we race toward the Thanksgiving season, it seems the time is right to share with you the story of one of Lakehill’s greatest friends and supporters over the first forty years. Mr. Charles J. Wyly, Jr. was a great friend of the school. He shared his wonderful insights about the world and his philosophy about the importance of education for all people. He was a pillar of the Dallas community and was very generous with causes he believed in, especially our school.

Some of you may know that for the first eighteen years of our school’s existence we rented our current building from the Lakewood Baptist Church. In 1989 the Board of Directors voted to purchase the building and the 5.6 acres we now occupy on Hillside Drive. In order to buy the land and building, the school needed to raise gifts to make the purchase a reality. The first gift came from Mr. Wyly and it set the tone for the success of the fund drive. The goal was $2.5 million and he provided the first $250,000 toward that goal. The largest gift in the history of the school, prior to his wonderful gift was $30,000.

His leadership and generosity made it possible for us to ultimately raise all the funds and to own the land and buildings free and clear. Over the years, I’m sure Mr. Wyly has given cumulative gifts in access of $1,000,000 toward our efforts to provide a quality education here in East Dallas.  Mr. Wyly loved people and to the best of my knowledge, he attended every holiday luncheon we held and truly enjoyed the interaction between our students and the senior citizens. This year’s holiday luncheon will be a little different for me, because Charles will not be here enjoying the “Spirit” of the holidays, as he passed away this summer in Aspen, Colorado.

He will truly be missed, and I am so grateful to have known him as one of those rare individuals who helped build a foundation for an outstanding prep school called Lakehill. He was a good friend and mentor and one of the most generous men I have ever known. My life and the lives of thousands of young people are better because Charles Wyly crossed each of our paths and shared his can-do spirit with all of us. Lakehill Preparatory School is very thankful to have been fortunate enough to have a great friend in Charles Wyly.

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Learning and Leading

A History of Headmasters

By Roger L. Perry
Headmaster, Lakehill Preparatory School 

One of the exciting benefits of an anniversary is the opportunity to reflect on the days, weeks, or years leading up to the moment of celebration. So as I reflect on the school’s 40th anniversary, the recollection of people who helped the school arrive where we are today seems appropriate and healthy.

Many of you may not realize that we have enjoyed the benefit of five Headmasters over the past forty years. In 1971, the founding Headmaster was Hollis Allen, a former DISD assistant Superintendent who had recently retired. He served one year – and a very important year it was – as he was able to convince his acquaintances in DISD to give Lakehill desks and blackboards and the things that our school needed to get started. The desks and other items were well used and were scheduled for the trash, but they were critical for the humble beginnings of our school.

The second Headmaster was Bob Ivie, a former science teacher at J.L. Long. Under his leadership, the school continued to operate much like a public school, except that we were private. I am very thankful that Mr. Ivie took a chance on a young educator and hired me as a part-time teacher and coach while I continued to work on my graduate degree at the University of North Texas. For historical perspective, I worked from noon to 7:30 pm, or until the game or event ended, for an amazing $200/month. Near the end of the fall term, the assistant Headmaster was released from his duties. Mr. Ivie asked me to serve in the assistant role for the spring semester and attend graduate school at night. I remained in that role for six years.

In 1976, Bernard Fulton, the founding Headmaster of Greenhill came to Lakehill as Headmaster and is the one I would credit for helping us become a true independent college preparatory school. His longtime buddy, Bob Lyle, who had recently retired from Hockaday as Headmaster, became one of my mentors, along with Bernard. After two great years at the helm, Mr. Fulton retired and Lee Johnson came to Lakehill from the Pennington School in Pennsylvania. Mr. Johnson attempted to bring the New England nuances to our college preparatory school. As you might imagine, there was some reluctance on the part of Texans to fully accept his approach.

In February of 1982, Mr. Johnson left the school and the Board of Directors thought it was my turn to give the position a try. Each of these Headmasters played an important role in building the foundation of our school and made significant contributions to the Lakehill we all enjoy today. I am thankful that the Perry years continue to be written.

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Mentoring

Jolly Good Inspiration

By Victoria John
Latin Teacher, Lakehill Preparatory School

Last summer after attending The American Classical League Institute in Minneapolis, I spent a couple of days with Carol and Michael Mackner, former Lakehill master teacher and her husband, corporate executive and railroad historian. Carol and Michael are a civic-minded team, independently and cooperatively strong. Carol remains active in the community while a full-time substitute at St. Paul Academy and The Summit School.  Michael serves on the Board of Directors and is the Vice President of Education at the Twin Cities Model Railroad Museum in St. Paul. He is also the author of the book, The Twin City Model Railroad Club/Museum 1934-2009.

Visiting with Carol and Michael is like combining a hands-on course in American history with the camaraderie of friendship. Michael spearheaded our driving tour as he narrated the development of the historically-rich Summit Avenue. We continued by visiting the home of the Great Northern Railway mogul James J. Hill and pausing for a photograph in front of the architecturally-interesting home of American icon F. Scott Fitzgerald. After breakfasting in the company of presidents at the historic Lowell Inn in the heart of Stillwater, I spotted my first American eagle nesting in the treetops. Another high note was the unveiling of their personal collection. As Michael pressed the garage door opener, the effect was of a curtain rising on a stage revealing a magnificent wall-to-wall, model train display, complete with lights, smoke and whistles and hand-painted murals depicting each of their fatherlands, England and Germany. As a model train aficionado myself, it was thrilling.

When I returned to Lakehill this fall, I sensed a renewed energy for teaching, an odyssey of spirit. Carol’s “jolly good” voice of encouragement kept echoing in my mind. She had always inspired me to do my best and to lead students on an educational, character-building journey. Even though she has not been at Lakehill for over seven years, I still think of her as a role model and my chosen mentor.

Bryna Thomson, a Lakehill 7th and 8th grade science teacher and Science Department Chair, also praises Carol as a colleague. “Carol was my teacher mentor my first year at Lakehill.  We were seventh grade class sponsors together and had a great time.  I learned a great deal about classroom management and working with students from her.  She was always firm with her students and expected a lot from them, but you could tell that she cared for each and every one of them.  She was (and still is) a great role model for me!”

Carol remembers her own mentor with affection. “Third grade teacher Bea Skalbeck took me under her wing. We met and chatted in the teacher’s lounge at St. Paul Academy and The Summit School. She was the grandmotherly type, who, after her husband’s death, adopted and raised a child from China.” They kept in touch after Carol started teaching at Lakehill. “Years later, I ran into her at a summer gathering while visiting Minnesota. She came up to me and said, ‘You did a really good job. I knew you would be a good teacher.’” Carol admitted, “I was quite moved by her words at the time. Her kind words were even more meaningful when I learned about her death less than two weeks later. She was a lovely person, someone concerned about other people.”

In 2001 Carol and I chaperoned the 8th Grade Adventure Week trip to Washington, D.C. I will never forget our day at the White House. We had waited in line for almost three hours, so after the tour students were tired and hungry. As we left the building, we found ourselves in the middle of a peaceful demonstration organized by the airplane mechanics union. The future Lakehill class of 2005 sparked to life as they ran to talk to the individuals involved. Carol accompanied one of the students, and together they interviewed one of the workers. The student, moved by our founding fathers’ emphasis on freedoms, turned to Carol and remarked, “This is a really good cause. May I join them?” Modeling support, Carol turned to the girl and said, “Go for it.”

We both watched, as one by one, our students joined the circuitous picket line, some grabbing signs, others joining in with cheers. It was quite a memorable sight, as our students lived the history they were studying.

During the next four years we accompanied other 8th grade classes to Boston, co-sponsored the annual Roman Banquet, chaperoned middle school dances, and worked with the 7th grade class on community service projects. For each event, Carol stood tall, addressed her troops, offered her support and encouragement, and with an eager, “Tally ho,” stepped aside as the students assumed their leadership roles.

That’s what a good mentor does.

“Jolly good.”