By Roger L. Perry
Headmaster, Lakehill Preparatory School
Success is a word we use as we aspire to accomplish things in our lives. It is often used to evaluate progress toward a specific goal. Like so many things, success can mean different things, depending on the situation and the person determining the level of completion.
Many times we are too critical of ourselves and others. Each of us achieves much more in any given day than we realize. Yet so often we are in such a hurry to get everything done that we do not slow down enough to enjoy some of the successes. We miss the opportunity to validate our efforts and provide positive reinforcement.
The validation of our own success so often seems to be dependent upon the words of others. So during these dreary winter days, I encourage you to seek opportunities to praise someone who you have noticed has gone beyond your expectations. You will have a positive impact on another person, while validating their efforts. In the process, you will have accomplished a task that makes you successful and feel good, as well.
In the spirit of the old saying, “Take time to stop and smell the roses,” I encourage you to take the time to notice the amazing things that are being accomplished around you every day, and realize that you are one of those successes for someone. Enjoy these winter days as spring will be here before you know it!